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Outdated social customs tend to get burned up by trailblazers like the Olympic gold medal winning Richardson Walshs. Though they acknowledge a taboo persists, particularly in sport, their status as same sex partners has made conversations about lesbian and gay athletes largely unavoidable when Kate and Helen are interviewed together. They were wed four years ago and feel anyone who finds that remotely eyebrow raising had better catch up quick “we’re conscious of balance, but really it’s just normal”, says Kate.
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This is why the Summit is really good there will be lots of CEOs joining us, those people that actually run the sports and can make a difference. Helen on Stonewall’s Rainbow Laces Summit event
When sloppy language or slurs combine with secrets, the atmosphere is divisive. “Throwaway, banter type, locker room comments have an immediate, strong and lasting effect on people hiding parts of themselves and parts of their lives,” explains Kate. “I think it Canada Goose Jackets goes across lots of topics, but particularly LGBT stuff. Mental health is becoming more talked about, but I feel this is going to be the last taboo.
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Kate in action for Great Britain during the FIH Women’s Champions Trophy clash against Argentina last June
“So I found those kind of comments really confusing, and a bit old school even then. Those views were still held in society as well at that time, but society has come on a huge way, and in hockey too obviously.”
Helen is proud that her sport now sets an example. “Our experience back then shows the importance of Canada Goose online those people in charge of the sport, and the coaches,” she says. “This is why the Summit is really good there will be lots of CEOs joining us, those people that actually run the sports and can make a difference. If they don’t jump on board with this, it won’t change.”
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As a campaign, Rainbow canada goose store Laces continues to expand last November’s weekend of action brought significantly increased visibility. Sporting LGBT role models like the Richardson Walshs remain rare, however, and for anyone struggling with their sexuality in a heteronormative world, standing on the sidelines can seem safer than joining in. “For me, it’s about showing an array of LGBT role models,” says Kate. “So for every LGBT person out there, they can look to someone and say ‘I can relate to that person because of x, y and z they’ve chased their dreams and I won’t be held back because I’m LGBT’. We need to break down stereotypes, and show everybody.” She knows her own sport is not exempt from that situation either. “When we talk about hockey, we’re only talking about women’s hockey, not men’s. There is no openly gay male hockey player in the national squad and I don’t think there ever has been. I think that’s because they’ve not canada goose uk black friday had anybody there willing to talk about they’ve not had to face it, think about canada goose factory sale it and understand it.”
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People don’t talk about it, and then you end up just not doing anything which is just the worst thing. Kate on the need for education on homophobia
One benefit and potentially on a global scale of football’s increased involvement will be education to combat homophobia, and only with the help of allies (people that aren’t LGBT supporting those who are) can that education reach those in need of it. With their hero status, players are in the perfect position to make a difference as allies and stand up to homophobic abuse, particularly on social media. So why don’t they? “It’s really difficult for footballers these days they’re so high profile and any little wrong thing that they might say can just get blown up,” concedes Helen. “It would be amazing if they were to do that but I understand why they don’t. If there was a wider network that could support them within that, then that could really help. Education is key for everyone.” Kate would also like to see more guidance for players. “I would imagine they’re unsure of what to say. It’s a bit the same in disability hockey, where we got involved you’re really anxious at first, you don’t know the terminology, you don’t want to say the wrong thing, you’re not sure how to address somebody. People don’t talk about it, and then you end up just not doing anything which is just the canada goose coats worst thing. Understanding what’s best to say, how best to address it give the players the tools to do that.”
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